My patient, a retired teacher, looked embarrassed as he said it.
“I don’t have a smart phone. I don’t have a computer.”
I had to check the readings – somehow, despite this lack of
technology in his life, his heart rate was perfectly normal. His oxygen reading
was also in the normal range. Skin color looked perfectly healthy. He even wore
a smile on his face.
Quickly, trying to keep him from noticing, my brain went
into full speed investigation mode.
"How is this medically
possible? A human being who is meeting all criteria for being alive, yet he is
not connected to technology? Worse yet, he doesn’t seem to carry guilt over
this lack of technology, nor does he seem concerned about what he is missing.
Should I consult psychiatry? Is this worthy of a case report for the medical
literature?"
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One of the gifts we get with each new year is the chance to
reassess what we want to invest our time and energy into doing.
This includes technology, and more specifically the screens
that humans are more and more likely to be staring at in the check-out line, as
they drive, and in any moment of pause in their day. (My mom shared how in her choir
practice yesterday, it was odd to her that people didn’t connect with each
other during the breaks but rather pulled out their 2x4 inch screens to “connect”.)
A list of questions that I encourage all of us to sit with.
You might even write them down on paper using ink.
How much of my life energy do I want consumed by and lived through
screens (phone, computer, tablet, TV, etc.) in 2023?
What is the healthy amount of consumption and living that I want to do through these devices this year? (Is there someone in my life that I feel models this healthy level of consumption? What is their strategy?)
What is being squeezed out of my life by these devices?
Am I missing things on a moment-to-moment and day-to-day
basis because of these devices? If so, what am I missing?
If my phone was at 0% battery but I was at 100% at this
moment, would I be content?
If I had horrible food but a phone in my hand, would I consider the meal a success?
Am I more connected or disconnected to myself and those around
me because of technology?
For those with children, how is my house doing at dealing
with the above questions, in theory and in practice?
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Assuming we identify places and ways we want to invest differently than the course we are currently on related to our screens and devices, it is a great chance to make some changes for your year ahead.
Put a basket in your house entrance where phones are to be placed as you walk in.
Take a day a week that is screen free for the entire family.
Work actively to take control of your technology (starting with the phones we call "smart") as opposed to the other way around.
You
might even channel my patient’s smile and contentment with his low-tech life. Again,
if you can trust me on this as a medical professional, he seemed to be doing
quite fine.
I just went a WHOLE week without a working phone and it was quite freeing. It made me want more of that releasing feeling and I am currently trying harder to get back to that pre-screen world where I, too, refused to be a slave to the screen. Alas, I still resorted to my laptop to email friends to tell them of this 'dilemma'
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