Thursday, September 23, 2021

Miss B: Update

The topic again surfaced this week at dinner.

Miss B.

Once a central part of our pandemic household, Miss B has disappeared.

“I wonder where she went?” our 3 year-old Sihasin asked between bites of pasta.

A little background:

It was a few months into the pandemic and Sihasin voiced that she wanted to go to school just like everyone else. She was feeling left out, seeing her siblings logging in each day to a world of learning while she was left behind. So Nizhoni, our oldest devised a plan. On times when she was not in school, she would sneak upstairs, put on a disguise, and become Miss B, personalized teacher for Sihasin. Let me explain that “disguise” was simply putting on a hat and sunglasses. I asked Nizhoni if she used a different voice as teacher, and she gave me a look. “Dad, that really isn’t necessary. I use my normal voice and I still don’t think she knows it is me.” (First blog on Miss B, September 2020).

Miss B, the teacher of all things a toddler could want to learn, was born. She began to expand her teaching her repertoire. Dance parties, guest teachers, arts and crafts projects. It was worthy of me giving a Miss B update in March 2021.

Shortly after that piece, Sihasin graduated to her own school at the UNM Children’s Campus. She was beyond elated to wear a backpack and have a school of her own.

Sadly, the requests for Miss B receded.

What is a teacher to do without a class to teach?

Where does a teacher find fulfillment when not in front of students?

We wondered these same things. Then, while riding in the car one day, the answer came in a surprising fashion. Miss B had simply adapted like the rest of us pandemic-beings, opening a new chapter in her life…appears she had gotten married as well.



Tuesday, September 7, 2021

North or South: Who will we choose to be today?

After soft landings

And warm laughter in Bosque Beauty

We circled together

Bringing that good medicine from each other

Giving our good medicine to the circle in return

 

We stood and contemplated one of life’s greatest challenges.

To the south we see water, trees, and tranquility. A falcon greeting us.

We pivot 180 degrees.

To the north we see cars, exhaust, concrete. A “Sonix” tempting us.

Feet in the same spot, but these two views are worlds apart.

 

Which will we choose today?

Bosque Beauty or Avenida Cesar Chavez?

When we find ourselves turning to the latter, can we find creative ways to gently turn gaze back to the former?

Will we trust life’s gifts (e.g. movement, prayer, community) to help us turn south when we feel a pull to the north?

In these questions lies the deeper one:

                                                Who will we choose to be today?


For those who weren't there for our Running Medicine walk/run on Saturday, a little context for the above piece. We moved in a beautiful place in Albuquerque known as the Bosque, set by the Rio Grande River. We visited a patch of yerba mansa, an herbal medicine shown in the picture above as we got our medicine through walking and running. When we circled together to stretch, we were in an interesting spot. To our south, we could see water, trees and the Bosque Beauty we had just immersed ourselves in. And to the north of us, a concrete landscape known as Avenida Cesar Chavez. We stood in one spot, but contemplated together how the simple act of turning to the south or to the north changed our lens on where we were drastically. You are welcome to join us for a walk/run anytime - https://runningmedicine.org