For those looking for a new path, a way to put addiction and trauma behind them, there is a new option in town.
The Soul
Recovery Café (SRC) is an incredible group of individuals working on their
own recovery as they build a space for others to do the same. They are not a
twelve-step program, but have members who take part in these programs (e.g. Alcoholics
Anonymous). SRC brings in traditional medicine and he healing power of movement
into their work. But above it all, they recognize that addiction creates
isolation and their work is to build community for all who are in their
programs. This community becomes the scaffold on which recovery and new paths
are built.
Their director, Elise Padilla, said a few things about their
work that I felt are worth sharing, principles that
all of us can aspire to live by.
1. “We don’t build programs, we build community. The community will then build our programs.”
Too often, we focus on how to build amazing programs without thinking much about how to build the community part. SRC takes the approach that if you get people who begin to trust one another, over food, conversation, ceremony, etc. then those people will bring their talents and ideas to do the work of building the programs.
Foundations for SRC’s work: radical hospitality and loving accountability
To be radically hospitable…sign me up. What a great thing to
shoot for! To have an open-arms acceptance of those in our midst. Loving accountability
thrown into the mix. Loving others in a way that is honest. It is love that is
not afraid of hurting feelings, but is instead focused on promoting healing.
Finally, Elise shared that she has two rules for those who work at SRC:
(1)
Keep it fun
(2)
If you aren’t working on yourself, you aren’t
working with me
The first part of this, a simple reminder that the most
serious of work (e.g. helping someone out of addiction) should have fun
elements at its core if it is to be effective. And the second, a reminder that
in all of our work and lives, we must commit to our own healing and practice
that if we hope to inspire others to do the same.
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I hope the SRC way of doing things brings a smile to your
heart this Friday.
And if you want to join us on New Year’s Day, we will be
putting on a fun, non-competitive walk/run. The 3rd Annual New
Year’s Prediction Run/Walk is free, but we offer people a chance to donate
funds that will go directly to SRC, with a goal of raising $5000. The entire
event is centered in celebrating those in recovery, whether they are hours or
days or months or years into sobriety. Hope that you will join us!
Having recently recovered from opioid dependency I see this as a valid alternative to the dogmatic approach to recovery. But remember, readiness and a deep desire to become whole again is key. Loving support is the fuel that can drive a return to wholeness. SRC can provide this. Give it a try!
ReplyDeleteYes! Community is one of the most essential parts of healing and recovery in so many situations, whether from addiction, grief and loss, physical illness, mental illness, etc. Hoping and praying that SRC will be successful in building a community that helps people take that journey of recovery, hand in hand with others who share that need! Blessings...JR.
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