This is a moment of transition.
Stop for a moment and see if you can feel it.
Fall has begun, and with it, the first wafts of cool air.
The mornings now darker, while sun sets in the evening much earlier.
The fall equinox is a moment where night and dark come into
balance, twelve hours of each. Globally, this is a moment where northern and
southern hemispheres receive the same amount of light.
Shana Tova (Happy New Year) to those celebrating Rosh Hashanah,
a transition to a new year in the Jewish calendar.
And now, good people, a chance to look inward to our own
points of transition.
Yesterday and all of the yesterdays it represents, now a thing of the past.
All of it serves as the kindling for the fire that we will
light today, as we transition to tomorrow and all of the tomorrows it
represents.
Those twigs of yesterday provide fuel for the fire. And some
things just need to burn, so that we can move forward.
Through the smoke, two questions waft into our vision.
How do you want to be?
Who do you want to be?
These are the simple and quite profound questions that
ground all transitions. The caterpillar surely feels the gravity of these
questions as they transition to butterfly. The tadpole similarly confronts them
as they think of the frog they are meant to be.
And yet, we often skip the How and Who aspects of transition,
distracted by the What. As in “What is on my plate for the rest of this week?”
and “What is my to-do list for the rest of the month?”
My hope is that we make time and space for the How and Who questions, allowing them to ground and inform the What aspect of our metamorphosis
into tomorrow’s version of ourselves.
Take time to write/reflect/draw/pray/move today as you consider How and Who you want to be.
In doing so, you are already transitioning.
This reflection reminds me, over the years, how I've regularly shared my observation with parents that middle schoolers (remember that time? yeah, me neither!) begin to ask themselves two questions, which we continue to ask for the rest of our lives: who am I, and what am I doing here? Blessings...JR.
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MashAllah, such a beautiful and timely reminder. Make time for how and who or exchange the essence of you for never ending things to do, with every moon blessings accrue, lessons as rich as the sky is blue when we remember how and who…words inspired by you. Gracias!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful. Reading your words helps with transformation. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHeart lake.... As beautiful as your words!
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